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How do we make sense of any of it?

30/12/2020

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How do we make sense of any of it?

WOW!! 
There is so much information out there, I don't know about you, however; I feel that it's utterly overwhelming at times.
How do we make sense of any of it?
When I am looking for advice...what constitutes an expert?
How do I manage to reconcile what seems logical to me with information and / or recommendations from the powers that be or the experts, which does not seem logical to me?
All of these questions have been going round and round in my head at various times in the last few months (well, to be honest, probably all of my life!)
I have a very clear and simple way to get myself out of the overwhelm state and clarify what is the right thing for me.
It´s called Free Flo Living. 
Now I am not saying that it always works first time, or that I always go to it right away.
There are times where, it seems, I like to torture myself a bit, you know, amp up the stress, feed the fear monkey. Anyone empathise with that?
Peace, panic, Linda Ledwidge, FreeFloLiving
Over the years, though, I have worked at finding out what works for me. I had to, or in all honesty, I would not be sitting here writing this.
What I have discovered is that I am " my expert", YOU are "your expert".
We all know instinctively what is true for us / right for us.
We have an inner knowing that many do not trust because over time it has been  contradicted and over-powered by our environment. 
We are born with this powerful tool and from our early years are taught to ignore it in favour of people who know better/more than us and, we are told, know better. 
baby, circle of love, Linda Ledwidge, FreeFloLiving
Babies come into this world and they are love.
They let us know what they want, when they are happy and when they are not, and they cannot talk yet!
They are the centre of the universe, theirs and the people around them.
Normally, no one judges a baby; no one has any expectations of a baby (except that he/she will sleep, eat, cry, and poop!) There may be expectations of responsibility on the parents but not on the baby.

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Then the baby becomes an infant/toddler, and that is when the judgments and expectations begin. There are growth and development markers to meet. Parents feel under pressure and that transfers to the infant/toddler.

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Oh yes, and then the infant/toddler grows into a child, and there are even more influences in their environment. School, religion, new friends of their own. 


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As the child becomes a teenager, the environment changes again, and there are even more influences.
They are now aware of independence, responsibility
​and choices and oh, it was so much simpler to be a baby, wasn´t it. 

Adult, circle of love, Linda Ledwidge, FreeFloLiving


And here we are , all grown up, adults. How did that happen so quickly?
We have control over our own life, don´t we?
We can do whatever we want, can´t we?
Why then do so many people (grown-ups) feel limited, unfulfilled, and unhappy?
Why do so many people feel as though they have no choice and no control?
Simply put, because we do not connect to that inner knowing, we do do not allow ourself to trust that we know best, that we are our own expert.
We all need love, support and connection.
​We all need to be able to get advice and knowledge from different perspectives, its how we figure out what works for us. 

No one knows everything, and yet, we all know everything; everything that we need to know. We know what makes us happy and what does not.
There are things that happen to us and around us that we have no control over BUT we always have control over how we feel; how we react and respond to anyone and everything. 
When you decide to make how you feel the most important thing in your life, you take responsibility; you have response-ability; you be come response-able. 
Changes happen when we connect to how we feel and then take 100% responsibility for it.
Take yourself from victim to victor.
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