Thoughts and insights from a Wellness Expert
Thoughts and insights from a Wellness Expert
Take your power back!
Are you ready to take 100% responsibility for you?
What does that even mean ?
Well when we make other people or events responsible for how we feel, our actions and our responses, in effect we give them power over us.
We give away our power!
Now, how does that make you feel?
Do you want to have the power to live your life, do the things you want, be happy?
Do you want to give that away to others?
Stop and think about that........
Every time you say, he / she made me feel...., he / she did that and that made me do this......
You are giving your power away.
Nobody can make you feel or do anything that you do not want to feel or do.
No one else is responsible for your happiness, or your unhappiness for that matter, only you.
If you find yourself in a situation where you feel that someone or something is making you feel or act a certain way that you are not happy with and you cannot change the person or thing , what do you do?
You change the way you look at / react to it.
When you change the way you look at things....
The things you look at change.
~ Wayne Dyer ~
You have response - ability.
Take your power back.
Take 100% responsibility
Are you ready?
Need some help?
Contact me here.
So Why does Tapping work?
by Linda Anne Ledwidge
Our body is an amazing machine, it is constantly regenerating, self-healing, self medicating and working to ensure the continual flow of blood and oxygen to all the organs and to maintain a balance of all the hormones and chemicals produced within. Our body does this naturally............until we get in the way.
Are you aware that at least 95% of all illness and disease is caused by the way we REACT to ....
Stress occurs when your mind believes that you are in some kind of danger – whether emotional or physical.
Your body pumps adrenaline into your system to give you a boost.
This is called the “fight or flight” response.
The ideal scenario is that only life threatening situations trigger the stress response in our body which allows us to act quickly with less thought and faster reflexes.
However in our society the stress response is often triggered by a ringing phone, a deadline, a boss, a family member, watching television or any number of other non-life-threatening situations.The long-term effects of continual stress are dangerous – even deadly – to our health and happiness, and, as you can see, stress is everywhere.
Some common effects of excessive stress:
Tapping on the body´s energy meridians (using some of the Acupuncture points ) effectively sends a message to the brain that says “ I am safe” , "there is no threat" and the brain then takes the body out of the “FIGHT OR FLIGHT “ mode. We then become relaxed and allow the body to do what it does naturally.
How to Tap
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Are you a multitasker?
You may well be able to do more than one thing at a time however it is impossible
for you to :
Notice that all of these have one thing in common - what we would call good or bad, positive or negative effect.
You see... you cannot feel good and bad at the same time.
Can you be happy all the time?
Living in this world today we are constantly encountering people, places, events and things that we have differing responses and reactions to.
Our mind and our senses are being bombarded with billions of data every second.
to keep us sane (at least a little!) Our mind and body has its own unique filter system so that we are only aware of what is important to us or what we are focused on at the time.
You may be dealing with something that you do not like.
You may see, read or hear about something that makes you feel sad, angry or frustrated.
Whatever you are feeling, thinking and focusing on you will notice more of it all around you.
You ask " How can I feel happy when so many things that I don't feel good about are happening to me and around me? "
Let me explain....
I am not saying that you can feel happy about these things, however the more you feel the negative feelings the more difficult it will be for you to feel good about anything and you will miss the" good " things that are happening too.
So how to shift the focus and therefore allow your filter to open up to what else is out there?
When you see, hear or experience something that you do not like -
Ask yourself, is there anything I can do to change this right now? to improve it?
If there is, and you want to, then do that, if there is not then make the decision not to think about it, talk about it, blog and post about it or focus on it for now.
You will be amazed at the difference this makes to your life.
As soon as we decide to look at things in a different way or to not focus on things that we do not feel good about and cannot change we allow the things that we do feel good about to come into our awareness AND we even start to look at the things we didn´t like in different ways.
YOU ALWAYS HAVE RESPONSE - ABILITY
.......IT'S A CHOICE
ABOUT WHETHER YOU WANT TO BE RESPONSE - ABLE!
THERE IS ALWAYS CHOICE!!!!!!!!!
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What are Allergies?
An allergy is the body´s reaction to substances that are usually harmless to most people. When you're allergic to something, your immune system mistakenly believes that this substance is harmful to your body and your immune system identifies it as an allergen. An allergen is any substance that the body recognises as foreign or dangerous.
Allergies are not caused by pollen, foods, medicines, etc.,.however in some people these things can act as triggers causing the body to react. In an attempt to protect the body, the immune system produces IgE antibodies to that allergen. Those antibodies then cause certain cells in the body to release chemicals into the bloodstream, one of which is histamine. The trigger is not the reason the body is reacting, if that were so everyone would react, wouldn´t they?
Why Do People Get Allergies
It has been suggested that the tendency to develop allergies is often genetic, however, as with all genes, just because you have an inherited gene doesn't mean you will definitely develop the allergy/disease/illness that your family genes may show. A person usually doesn't inherit a particular allergy/disease/illness,just the genetic tendency towards these.
A healthy body with a strong immune system does not have allergies.
So why do we get allergies then….
Types of Allergic Diseases
The fact is that many conditions are caused by an allergic response in the body. It is not only runny noses, itchy eyes and rashes that are the signs and symptoms of an allergic reaction. When there is a build up of toxins and the body cannot eliminate them we then see signs of disease and chronic illness - some of the most common are:
Dealing with Allergies
So you have an allergy, what do you do?
The conventional treatment for allergies is avoidance and suppression of the symptoms.
While this will give temporary relief it will not improve the condition sufficiently unless you are able to completely avoid the allergen for the rest of your life. Also as the body will still be in a state of imbalance it usually will mean that this will show up in another way.
To correct allergic conditions, the body must be brought into balance and allowed to self heal. Detoxification and strengthening of the immune system while avoiding the allergic trigger is important.
Keeping It Super Simple:
Give your body what it needs to do its job, it will always strive for health and wellness and even the most toxic body will find a way to maintain life as long as possible.
Getting the basic needs of the body are, as always, the first step :
Of course you can always opt for the band aid / quick fix, and pop a pill or nasal spray or live your life avoiding , for some people, a multitude of triggers.
If you seriously want to live your life in a happy healthy way....there is nothing to stop you...except YOU!
If you would like further information please feel free to contact me here.....
Linda Ledwidge -
Qualified General Nurse
Certified Practioner Level IV